Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Four Wedding Dresses

During my 13 month engagement I owned four different wedding dresses. I know what you are thinking....You didn't keep them all right?....I returned one. Eeek. It all began with A Sue Wong impulse buy. This dress looked like it came straight out of Daisy Buchanan's closet. It screamed 1920's with a low back, intricate bead work and flowing feathers. After a few months I realized it didn't make me feel like a bride and if it was in any color other than white it would fall under special occasion rather than bridal.

Tip 1: Wedding retailers NEVER return dresses, unless they are Nordstrom. The company has placed bridal boutiques in many of their high producing locations.  Dresses range from $800-5,000 and you only pay half at the time of purchase. This is where my dress came from and where it went back to. Very sad day.

Now onto the dress I actually wore. The University I attend received a donation of 2,500 past season wedding dresses for Kleinfield, New York to be sold off and raise money for their Fashion program. I have no idea of the actual retail of my dress but I paid a pretty $300 for it!! This is when I realized I needed to stay true to all things clearance and red sticker that I've always loved.
Tip 2: If you are looking for a deal try attending trunk shows and samples sales. I have a dear friend who had great luck with these type of events.

Tip 3: If you live in Southern California you must check out the Nordstrom Rack in Costa Mesa that is right next door to the glorious South Coast Plaza. They have a large discount designer section as well as the only discount bridal boutique in the company. Since the company is about big brands and on-trend pieces their last season dresses can be found with at least a 50% markdown.

My reception dress came from this rack. It was originally $1,300 and I paid $160 for after seeing it for full price just 3 months prior. It was made by a fresh new designer who had recently dressed Carrie Underwood and Opra. It was originally long with the slightest train but I chopped it to my knee so it would be perfect for dancing.
Lastly, the third dress that won't be making it's a appearance till after our church wedding is a Valentino. I don't like taking about work but at this point it is pretty apparent where I am employed. I highly benefited from their tradition of returns without expiration dates and was able to take home a  two year old returned $5,600 destination Valentino wedding for $100.

In the end this girl lived happily ever after with her man and three dresses that cost less than one.

Bargain hunter for life!

Sunday, May 26, 2013

New Traditions

Many years ago before I found Mr. Right and before Pinterest made it acceptable for hopeful romantics to publicly plan their weddings, I was shamelessly brainstorming mine. In grocery lines I was more enticed by bridal magazines than the dramatic happenings of celebs. I later found myself expanding my bridal literature to include photography blogs and planning sites. During one of browsing expeditions I came across a photographer who shot a wedding where the family had preserved 6 generations of wedding dresses. I was blown away and for those of you who aren't sharing my excitement understand that these dresses date back to the 1800's and were in an array of colors since they predated the white standard. The bride's family had made it tradition to never share or speak of their collection to the bride until the morning of the wedding. When the bride entered her hotel suite she was was surprised to find her mom, grandma and a gallery of dresses waiting for her. I find this to be such a power, beautiful, and sentimental way to connect to the generations of the past. I have always been a sentimental person and treasure all the family heirlooms my grandma has given to me over years. After reading this story I immediately knew I wanted to start a tradition of my own. I began by asking my mom and grandma stories about their special day, looking through photos and pulling their dresses from storage. I could see the joy they got from seeing their dresses and sharing their memories with me. This lead me to come up with the idea of photographing our dresses side by side and with us standing next to them. 
Once we were done with the shoot we decided that all the dresses needed to be neatly packed away for future generations to enjoy. I hope to see this set of three turn into five in my lifetime.

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

5-3-13

To me marriage means more than just loving another person. It means committing to a relationship that will lead to a moment in the distant future where you and your spouse are sitting on the porch of the home you raised your children in, watching their children run and play about the yard. I want to hold Matt's wrinkled hand and laugh about the dozen cats we've owned, the nights we sipped too much, the countries we visited, and the adventures we never stopped going on. This is our time and the beginning of our story...

Now at last they were
beginning Chapter One
of the Great Story
no one on earth
has ever read.
which goes on forever:
in which every chapter is better
than the one before.
C.S. Lewis

18 days down and a life time to go!


Sunday, April 28, 2013

Sunday Style


Recently my grandma decided to hand down to me some clothes she has been holding onto since the 1950's. This is great and all except she had a bombshell body complete with the smallest waist which isn't exactly compatible with me. I found a couple winners and have been waiting for the perfect time to wear them out.

Below is a dress I've been obsessing for on Pinterest for the past few months and look how lucky I got....

I wore it to church today with a jacket and felt beyond beautiful!

Short and sweet! 5 days till my wedding!




Friday, April 26, 2013

Friday Letters

Dear Wedding Santa, I just made you up! When Matt and I created our wedding registry we clicked a little box that gave our guests the option of mailing gifts rather than lugging them to the wedding. We have amazing friends and family and the gifts have been pouring in! It has been a real treat seeing the Wedding Santa/UPS man regularly.

Dear Wedding, You are 7 days away!  I love you and hate you so passionately that I'm going to end our letter right now. See you soon!

Dear Me, Chill out! Slow down! I know things are getting wild but you can't let the madness run you. Take time for yourself in the next week to breath and reflect on the beautiful day that you are about experience. If all else fails start spiking your drinks and get in a little retail therapy.

Dear Ceramic Birds, I can't believe I own 70 of you and had to pill stickers off everyone of your bottoms. #decorproblems

Dear Husband, Our anniversary is two days before we get married and we are going to paint the town! No cells phones permitted just kissing, dancing, hand holding, booze sipping, and cab catching! This is our your time.


The few wedding sneak peaks I'll allow:

Sunday, April 21, 2013

USED and It Feels Soooo Good!

Dress: $5 Vintage-Rose Bowl swap meet, Purse: $1- Rose Bowl swap meet, Heels: $2 Highschool rumage sale, Levis Denim button up-$1 Los Angeles City College swap meet.

Grand Total: $9

I can't stay away from clearance stickers, bargin bins and second hand clothing. I normally pick up a new garment on a weekly basis which leads most to believe I have a shopping addiction (eh, maybe?) or extreme credit card debt. I shop this frequently because I don't have a habit or hobby like smoking, gambling, getting manis and pedis or Starbucks chugging that is consuming all my loot. 

New shirt > Blended premix concoction and coffee cake

A new shirt will always be my undisputed champion.

This is the type of sales floor I hit to collect my treasures and spend that weekly $35 that I didn't sip away. I'm going to start a series of posts show casing insanely cheap outfits like my $9 one above.




Sunday, April 14, 2013

Lipstick

(Sweater: Free People, Dress: No name, No English speaking store in Downtown LA, Cross body: Cole Hann, Wedges: Ann Taylor, and Necklaces: Gift) 

Lipstick is responsible for everything from being the icing on a perfect outfit to free drinks, relationships, Instagram pictures, duck face poses, and conception. Ain't that the truth? You're probably laughing right now because you know I'm right and you're probably guilty of at least one or two. This small item has the power to make a girl feel like a woman and add a little Beyonce to anyone's step. So use the force, right? 
I think it is important to feel sexy and for me red lipstick always does the trick.


I'm wearing a discontinued color from Aveda and need help finding a new brand to depend on. Where do you go for your cosmetics? 




Sunday, April 7, 2013

Beach City EATS

In my opinion everything is better by the sea....

 "By the sea, By the sea, by the beautiful sea!
You and me, you and me, oh how happy we'll be!"

 I appreciate a good meal so much that on any given day I'll drive an hour to Orange County, scoop up some friends and drive another 30 minutes to Laguna Beach. My man loves all things penguins and my friend Christa is somewhere in the realm of obsessed. When we caught wind of a 40 year old joint called the Penguin Cafe it took zero convincing to give it a try. On Friday morning I ditched my diet and fully indulged in an all carb breakfast. Do you see that whip cream snow cap on my pancakes? I was in heaven. The restaurant was super small and covered with penguin figurines, pictures, paintings, and stuffed animals that they've acquired over the years. It is definitely worth checking out and only a few feet from a set of stairs that takes you right onto the beach.
Recently Matt and I began religiously watching and rewatching Man VS. Food. Not that I'll be visiting middle America anything soon but I'm now fully educated on where to find the best BBQ, milkshakes and donuts the size of my head. We love watching episodes where the restaurants are in Southern California and the food we fall for is obtainable. On Saturday my friend Vanessa took the two of us on a getaway to San Diego and we couldn't pass the opportunity to eat at Lucha Libre. It is a small gourmet taco shop with Pepto Bismol pink walls covered in Luchador pictures and masks. They love Luchadors so much that they give discounts if you order while wearing a traditional mask.

What I ordered and the contents:

Tap Me Out Taco: Chicken, french fries, grilled veggies, cheese, poblano sauce, and sliced avocado.
Veggie Taco: Black beans, panela cheese, grilled zuchini, mushrooms, corn, and poblano sauce.

Hungry? Ya, I thought so.
Life is too short to eat boring food!